Classes & Workshops

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Laughing and Moaning:
An Introduction to using Power, Sex, and Toys in Bed & Beyond

Whips and chains, really? 
You’ve been curious for a while…or maybe your partner has been. Truth is, SM isn’t a matter of pain and being mean, it’s a thrilling play of power, sex, and creativity. Come join sex and BDSM educator Felice Shays as she introduces you to the dynamics, toys, and tools found in the world of BDSM. With humor and straight talk, Felice will discuss the differences between abuse and SM, how safe = sexy, fantasy and role-play, wielding personal and physical power, conscious rough sex, and how to find and grow the seeds of your own desires without shame and with intense pleasure. You will walk out of this class having (optional) hands-on practice with floggers, bondage, canes, and more, time permitting. The perfect class for beginners. Come alone or with a partner. All genders and sexual appetites welcome.

Sex Toys And BDSM: A Perfect Match 

What can you do with a thigh harness, a vibrating buttplug and a 8 inch silicone dildo? Felice Shays wants to tell you.  And show you. From a BDSM perspective. Kinky? This is the perfect raucous, information-packed, fun, hands-on (optional) sex toy workshop for you. Felice will discuss and demonstrate a plethora of the things we use to pleasure our asses, mouths, dicks, and cunts. How to kink them up, combine them with power dynamics, or mix in some bondage.  From the neophyte to the hard-core, every pervert loves a good toy now and then. This could be just the thing to make good sex & play become amazing sex & play.

Flogging: A Basic Hands-On Primer

Arms, backs, chests, butts…sure all of these body parts are crucial to flogging, but the head and heart must be in synch with the technique.  Felice, who has years of experience in the giving and receiving end of many floggers, will discuss and demonstrate a full range of whips and materials, safety, and strokes, and how to combine sex if so desired.  Then it's the hands-on part.  Learn to give and/or receive these delicious, powerful, sexy sensations. This is a delicious introduction or brush-up class.
Open to all genders.

Walking the Edge:  Punching, Kicking, Slapping and Sex

It ain't about the brawn.  Regardless of your size, gender, or physical ability, this high energy workshop uses scads of demonstrations to teach you fierce, passionate methods of slam, slap and thud. Learn to use your brain and a multitude of body parts to bring you and your partners to new found levels of physical, sensual, sexual intensity and intimacy.  With humor, affection, straight talk, and smarts, Felice Shays will discuss and demonstrate technique, safety, partnered positions, head space, anatomy, and helpful items.  Also, as time allows, Felice will work with individuals, dyads and other combinations of partners to resolve their dilemmas of inequity of size, status, attitude or muscle.
Everyone welcome regardless of sexual persuasions, gender, physical ability, or level of experience.

Wham Bam *!&^?%!!@*
A Hands-On Punching, Kicking and Slapping Workshop

Deep throating, face slapping, spanking, pounding penetration. Sound like you? Whether you are new to this kind of sex, power, and play or if you’ve been around the block countless times, this dynamic, hands-on workshop will show you how to compine fierce, passionate methods of slam, slap, fuck and thud with sex. Regardless of your size, gender, or physical ability, Felice will teach you how to use your brain and body to bring you and your partners to new found levels of physical, sensual, sexual intensity and intimacy in this demo packed, interactive class. 
Are you a bottom that dreams of taking a good hard punch?  A top who wants to literally kick the crap out of someone without a follow-up trip to the hospital?  Fantasize about someone choking on your cock? Or being the one choking?  Open to all levels of experience. No partners necessary – Felice is a born match-maker.

This dynamic, interactive workshop will give you lots of hands (and feet) -on experiences. Regardless of your size, gender, or physical ability, this highly interactive workshop uses scads of demonstrations to teach you fierce, passionate methods of slam, slap and thud. Learn to use your brain and a multitude of body parts to bring you and your partners to new found levels of physical, sensual, sexual intensity and intimacy.  Felice will show a variety of techniques to safely and creatively kick, punch and slap.  Then we’ll all get down to it - time to practice as Felice gives feedback and help as needed.  Whether you are small or tall, muscular or not, she has tips and tricks for getting what you want.

Are you a bottom that dreams of taking a good hard punch? 

A top who has always liked the idea of literally kicking the crap out of someone without a follow-up trip to the hospital?  Fantasize about a group take-down? Then this workshop is for you.  Felice will get you on the road to causing or fine-tuning your own trouble. 

Open to all levels of experience.  Please come with your heart, humor, and your willingness to participate.  No partners necessary – Felice is a born match-maker.

Rough Sex meets Walking The Edge:
A Hands-On Punching, Kicking, Slapping, & Sex Workshop

The Bottom's Guide To Getting It, But Good

Bottoms = sexy, fierce, brainy, beautiful.  But what makes a bottom tick? Discover the incredible depths of power, sexual pleasure, humor, spiritual awareness, and catharsis you can find as a Bottom.  Methods of negotiation, approaches to going deeper, learning to take a hit…discover how to push yourself beyond your fears and expectations through provocative exercises, demos and discussion.  Long time sex educator and switch Felice Shays will help you figure out how to get what you honestly want.  
Hey you, Tops…this class is for you too.  Learn how your play partner thinks and feels.  And besides, you may want to taste the kiss of leather, steel or silicone someday too.
Open to all genders, scene identities and levels of experience.

The Mommy Edge (Panel + Discussion)

Mommies (Mamas, Mothers, Moms) make us feel safe and warm? Yes…sometimes.  But certainly not always. Felice Shays, who has been a Mommy to girls and boys of several genders, will lead a panel of widely experienced and divergent Mommies as they discuss age play, leather families, sex, headspace, punishment, identity, real world dilemmas, the conceived differences between Mommies and Daddies, and what to do when the Mommy needs some Mommying.  A time to appreciate the Mommies who wear stilettos, lipstick, dildos or neckties.   Non-Mommies very welcome.