Classes & Workshops

SEX SEX SEX

Your Own Personal Sex Coach

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Anal Pleasure for Everybody



Ever wish you had someone who was smart, easy to talk to, cool, and knew lots of sex stuff so you could ask her about any and everything?  To answer questions like, "but I DON'T ejaculate? How come?" or "I want my lover to slap me in the face but even if I did know how to ask for it, she doesn't know how to do it. What do I do?" "How come some people LOVE their asses fucked, and I hate even having mine touched?"


In this hot, fun, new class sex and BDSM educator and coach Felice Shays works directly with individuals and couples addressing your specific questions. Just watch or jump in - either way you'll leave more self-assured and armed with ideas. (Sex-active demonstrations included, depending on the venue and the desires of the participants).  Maybe we'll talk about rough sex, role play, playing with power. Maybe we'll discuss/demonstrate sensuous kissing, the proper fit of a harness, slapping, fisting, ass play... it all depends on what you want.
No question is too hard or too weird. Nothing so seemingly simple or perverted or embarrassing that Felice won't show or explain to you how to do it.  And wherever you're at, is exactly the right place.



Other possible topics include:
Fine tuning techniques for talking about what you want (and don't want).

Hair pulling, face slapping, biting, choking, and more.
Ways to take hold of your sex and run the show.
Learning how to surrender into ecstatic submissive bliss.
Coming to peace with internal conflict or judgment.
(Consensual) ‘rape’ and other taboo sex games

Bring your questions, ideas, and concerns. All genders, sexual proclivities, singles, couples, and other relationship configurations welcome.



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Often thought of with fear or fantasy, anal sex and pleasure is a world just waiting for exploration. Join expert sex educator Felice Shays in this fun, relaxed workshop as she discusses warming up the mind and body, giving and receiving anal pleasure, lube, cleanliness and health, anal anatomy, g-spot and prostate, toys, anal penetration, and even a few ideas for anal stealth fun. A good time for all ass owner-operators. All genders and sexual appetites welcomed.

Brutal Affection: Rough Sex For Everyone: Consent and Desire

Face slapping, spanking, bondage, pounding penetration, role playing, talking smut? This sound like you? Or wish it could be?
Come join popular sex and BDSM educator Felice Shays as she teaches you to use your hands, mouth, toys, and imagination to delve deep into what is often taboo and always crazy hot. Felice will address what it is to take and give power and how we get to lose society's prescriptions as we cross the bedroom threshold.
Throughout the workshop, with levity and straight talk, Felice will share provocative techniques on how to find and express your own desire, how to push through fears that might be preventing you from discovering new sexual and sensual highs, and of course, she will teach you how to spank, slap, restrain, and more.
We will explore communication, emotional limits and release, safety, partnered positions, head space, anatomy, dirty talk, and helpful items.
Yeah, we’re talking SEX. Sweet, raunchy, bring it SEX.
All genders, ages and individuals and couples all and always welcome.
Bring your questions and your curiosity.

Pounding penetration, face slapping, spanking, playing with sex toys, bondage, role playing, talking smut. Sound like you? If you are already doing some of these things, here’s your chance to dive deeper into the sea of Rough Sex. In this hot, fun class, sex and BDSM educator and coach Felice Shays works hands-on with individuals and couples addressing your specific questions answered through live demonstrations. A fast paced, interactive (optional) workshop, this class assumes you are already delving into some (or a lot) of rough play during sex and are ready for the next level – whatever that is for you.

Possible topics include:

  Fine tuning techniques for talking about what you want (and don't want), hair      pulling, face slapping, biting, choking, and more.

  Ways to take hold of your sex and run the show.
  Learning how to surrender into ecstatic submissive bliss.

  Coming to peace with internal conflict and judgment.

  (Consensual) 'rape; and other taboo sex games

Bring your questions, perverted thoughts, and concerns.

All genders, sexual proclivities, singles, couples, and other relationship configurations welcome.

Rough Sex 2: Immediate Gratification

Playing in Dangerous Neighborhoods: Advanced Rough Sex

Face slapping. Teeth sinking into flesh. Kicking someone when he’s down. Gang bangs, Knives going where god never intended them to go. Fists flying. Rape. Fingers gripping. Gasping for breath. Forced blow jobs. Crawling and begging…
If combining these things with pre-negotiation and full consent sound white hot, then you, you pervert, want Rough Sex.

With humor, affection, straight talk, and smarts, Felice Shays will discuss and demonstrate techniques from her Walking the Edge class, yet THIS time the emphasis will be on how to combine them with killer sex techniques.
We will also explore emotional limits and release, safety, partnered positions, group scenarios, head space, anatomy, dirty talk, and helpful items. And finally, Felice will share provocative techniques on how to find your own desire and how to push through fears that might be preventing you from discovering new sexual and sensual highs.  
This is an (optional) interactive class for all genders, bodies, physical abilities, and levels of experience. Although based on Felice’s Walking the Edge class, you do not have had to attended that one to rock this one.

Going Down: A Queer Girl''s Mouth Tells All

What better teacher of cunnilingus than someone who loves to give and get it?  Who knows the equipment better than a woman who owns her own and loves up others’?  Join queer sex educator Felice Shays as she gives you tips and tricks for pussy adoration.  A quick tour of anatomy and then on to techniques and pitfalls:  from the simple to the sublime and from the vanilla to the kinky.

Cunt and lips, cock and balls: What we call our parts, how we treat them, and how we touch them can all be linked to desire, personal history and identity. Learn smart, sexy ways to support someone in their personal journey of healing from sexual trauma or if they don't abide by black and white norms of gender.

Sucking Off (Store Bought) Cock

A blow job on a dildo…why?  Simply put, fellatio is hot and sexy regardless of whether that cock is attached by nature or a harness or a pair of briefs; by birth, hormones, or by identity.
At first glance, sucking off a dildo may seem to be simply about that silicone cock and a mouth.  Nope.  In this workshop we will discuss the anatomy of the body and of the mind, various ways to recognize and respect people's need for limits regarding touch, and tons of different methods sure to drive anyone out of their heads.

For rougher versions of blow-jobs, check out Felice's other class:

Open to all genders.

Vaginal Fisting

Vaginal fisting is an incredible experience; beautiful, sexy, powerful, piggish, spiritual, and intimate. Felice will teach you how to fist and/or receive a fist with care, awareness, skill and respect.  First a guided tour of anatomy and then watch as Felice makes it happen – a live disappearance of a hand into a lucky someone’s cunt.  We'll also talk about lube, helpful positions, techniques, and activities to do at the same time. As time allows, Felice will coach partners (of any number or kind) in their Fisting Quest.
Open to all genders and sexual desires.

Ok. So maybe you know how to fist someone.
Or maybe you can’t quite get enough of your cunt or ass being filled by a solid mass of hand.  But what happens next? Where and what is the 601 of fisting?
In this workshop Felice will begin by discussing some anatomy basics, teaching a few exercises to strengthen and make the vagina and ass more receptive, and making sure that we all agree about how we insert our hands with ease, smarts, and dexterity.
Next we will amp up the fisting volume and discuss and demonstrate how the big kids play – double fisting, fisting in suspension, anal fisting, fisting front and back doors simultaneously…and much more.
All genders and levels of experience are welcome.

Fisting For Perverts (Fisting 601)

Getting Wet:  G-Spot and Ejaculation

What makes a woman (or anyone with a vagina/front door, for that matter) soak the sheets?  Where is that mysterious thing called the G-Spot?   With straight talk and humor Felice Shays will discuss the anatomy, myths and realities of vaginal ejaculation, and how to find and stimulate the g-spot (yes, even via the ass!). Then comes the live squirt demonstrations!  As time and setting allow, Felice will help individuals and partners find their g-spots so that they too might make lovely messes.  Open to all genders, sexual orientations, single or partnered.

Strap-on Play For You and Your Lover

Regardless of what you’ve got going on in your underwear, there are throngs of us who love to wield dildos to bring ourselves and out partners to breathtaking ecstasy.  Hot only begins to describe the sensuous adventure that using a harness (strap-on) and dildo or buttplug is.
But which strap? Which dildo? Which orifice? What’s all this fuss about buttplugs? And really, how do you do it, anyway?

With humor, clarity, and straight talk, sex educator and coach Felice Shays will guide you to how to choose gear, communicate with your partner, provide tips and techniques for being penetrated with ease and pleasure, build confidence in wearing a strap and dildo,  assuage the receiver’s fears, discuss butt facts, myths, safety and cleanliness, and loads more.

Expand your sexual horizons, fulfill roles and fantasies, move as the gender you know yourself to be, find new ways to fill hungry holes, and deepen your intimacy communication with your lover.
Come discover the powerful world of better sex with harnesses and dildos!

Open to all genders.

For The Love of Holes: Sex Toys That Penetrate

This is an easy, raucous, information-packed, fun, hands-on (optional) sex toy workshop emphasizing penetration. Felice will discuss and demonstrate a plethora of the things (from the sublime to the ridiculous) we use to pleasure our asses, mouths, and cunts. Different materials affect the body in different ways - how do you figure out what you want and what's going to feel good?  We'll talk about how to kink those toys up, combine them with power dynamics, or mix in a little bondage.  Alone, with a partner or in groups - finding the perfect (perhaps surprising) positions and toys could be just the thing to bring good sex and play to amazing sex and play.  Open to all genders.

What’s Fuck Got To Do With It?:

Working Your Hands & Mouth for (Even) Better Sex

Why is it we always arrive at intercourse as the “Grand Finale” of sex?
How do we climb out of The Jaws of Predictability?
How do we tell our partners we want them to refresh their technique?
How do we vanquish that stifling distinction between foreplay and intercourse? It’s all sex, after all. And hopefully…Great sex!

The answer? Using your mouth and your hands in surprising and sexy ways that will make the genitals and penetration just two more lovely pieces of the sex prize, but not the Holy Grail.

For this class, Felice has culled scads of tips and techniques to make your sex stronger, long-lasting, more tender, unpredictable, challenging, fun, and of course, hot.  She will help you to figure out how to get what you want – and then to be able to communicate that to your partners.
Spark that amazing sex toy between your ears and use your brain to bring you to new sexual highs.

 

Open to all genders and sexual appetites!

Sex: Focusing on The Senses

This demonstration packed workshop is about coupling sex with blindfolds, gags, earplugs and headphones. Hot wax, cool steel, and cold ice. Feathers, fur, and more. Simple tools from the dollar store (or your kitchen) and gorgeous works of art from the sex toy store. Come join Felice Shays as she shows you (through optional hands-on exploration) a treasure trove of ideas, techniques, and sweet and devious ways to bring you and your lover the gifts of sensory deprivation and exhilaration

Honing in on your lovers senses is a bridge to a realm where sex takes on new intensities and immeasurable pleasures. Here’s your chance to discover what happens when we deny or electrify one or more of the senses. Everyone welcome – come alone or bring a friend.